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Monday, August 19, 2013
"Adopt, Don't Shop?" Better Stop, And Think! It's a Life Choice, Not a Policy Position!
There has been much written in the animal rights community, alleging that no one should buy a dog, or any other pet, from any breeder, for any reason. All dogs should come from rescue, or a shelter, never someone who deliberately bred it. The mindset behind this is that if you buy a dog, instead of adopting from the shelter, then some dog in some shelter is going to be put to death because of that decision. Also, that buying from a breeder supports 'an industry founded on abuse!' and other such anti-breeder sentiments. In the world of the animal rights activist, of course, all breeders are evil, money grubbing pariahs who prostitute their poor animals for filthy money. Every last one of us. None of us are stewards of valuable bloodlines, none of us love our dogs and pay for the most up to date and expensive feed and vet care for our pets, none of us spend all our leisure hours playing with those pets or taking them to various performance events so they can play and be dogs and do what they were born to do, none of us live with our beloved dogs on our couches, no. We are all filthy 'puppy mills' who care NOTHING about the dogs and only about money, and living with a breeder is the worst possible life any poor pet can lead. It does not matter how many we breed or how few, or even what kind of facilities or training regimen or lifestyle our dogs lead; if we are breeding at all, we are The Problem. Not only is that a ridiculous position to take, it flies in the face of all logic. However, this is becoming increasingly widespread as bumper sticker philosophy, and a lot of 'animal lovers' who do not really understand the basics of this credo, and who think that rescue is a noble calling, are passing this around as if it were self-evident instead of wrong-headed, feel-good propaganda. Not only is this a blatant attempt to 'guilt' people into going to the shelter rather than to a nasty breeder if they want a pet, it is a vicious slander of people who have spent their lives (and several fortunes) doing their very best to create beautiful, healthy puppies for families to love. It promotes the idea that families are better off to settle for what they can find from other's castoffs at the shelter, rather than finding a breeder who has carefully and meticulously created a perfect puppy to fit their lifestyle. This concept completely overlooks many of the very obvious, and dangerous pitfalls, in making such a decision, and this goes beyond merely being an internet stone throwing contest. I want to talk about many of those pitfalls here, because behind the beautiful idea of "give that poor shelter dog a chance!" lurks the truth that there is a huge difference between deciding to take a shelter dog home while being fully cognizant of the downsides, vs being guilted into going to the shelter because of pressure from friends and the media, when you really want or need something more than a pig in a poke.
One of the arguments to send people to rescue is that breeders over-price puppies, and that it is a lot less expensive to get a dog from the shelter or a rescue. Actually, that is often untrue; I see dogs on shelter and rescue sites daily whose adoption fees are FAR more than I charge for a companion puppy. There is NO difference to the consumer, price wise, 'adopting' vs buying from a reputable breeder, whether that be a high quality commercial producer or a small time specialty breeder like myself. The 'adoption fees' include the required neutering (breeding is evil, exploitative and cruel, you know) shots at outrageous prices, and often various 'health costs' from worming or flea treatment, skin diseases, ear mites, and the list goes on. Depending on the source, the medical costs can be anywhere from reasonable to high, but are often pretty inflated; and there is a general cost for the fostering written in as well so that by the time you take your new 'adopted' puppy home, you have spent as much as if you came to a top show breeder to buy a pet quality puppy. And the only papers you will get are not ones you want to keep. ;o)
Another argument is that puppies from breeders are all 'unhealthy.' This is actually almost funny, if it were not so sad, and so untrue. The basis of this belief is that there are certain illnesses that seem to plague some breeds more than others, and the story from the AR community is that this is because breeders are just cranking out unhealthy puppies for money. But the real truth of the issue is, the only reason anyone is aware that a certain breed has a health issue is because the breeders and their vets track these things in order to combat them. How do we know the incidence of, say, hip dysplasia in German Shepherd Dogs, and why do we know it is improving? Because the dogs are being screened by caring breeders who want to produce healthier puppies. Without those breeders presenting their prospective parents for testing, no one would know how many in the breed had a problem, or how to go about fixing it. And no one spends the money to track these issues in the mixed breed pet owning community. It is widely believed that mutts are generally healthier, since there are no exhaustive lists of health concerns that follow mixed breeds; but this is a silly myth. Anyone who has spent any time in a vet office can tell you that there are plenty of mixed breeds suffering from the exact same problems as their fancier cousins. Some of these issues are based on general body type, such as hip dysplasia which seems to affect large breeds (and large mutts!) or patellar issues that plague the toy breeds (and small mutts!) Others are based on inheritance, but mixed breeds inherit just as many negative genes as purebreds, it is just that no one tracks them for the incidence the same way that purebreds can be tracked. And sometimes, mixed breeds inherit several different issues from their various ancestors. The truth of the matter is, at least the majority of breeders are aware of potential problems in their breeds and are working diligently to confront and eradicate them. For the buyer, that means a lot.
The pup from the breeder and the pup from the shelter may look alike, on the surface; both are cute and cuddly, both are worthy of a loving home. The difference, though, is pretty telling. At the shelter, you get a dog in a cage, parentage usually unknown, health issues if any of said parents also unknown, health testing at all of those parents pretty unlikely. You have no idea what kind of temperament the parents had, no idea what kind of socialization or enrichment the puppies got as weanlings, and there is seldom a really decent screening process. Oh, they screen, but not for the sorts of things that breeders look for; they want to know if the prospective owners are gainfully employed and how much they make, do they have a fenced yard, do they own other animals (usually considered a bad thing) and are any of them intact (almost always a bad thing.) They do screen for things of that nature, but there are a lot of intangibles that get glossed over if you don't really know the dogs you are placing as individuals. Many shelter personnel are neither trained nor qualified to figure out which pup/older dog would be the best fit for younger kids vs pre teens, which dog/breed works better in a high energy household as opposed to an elderly couple, etc. They are working under a lot of limitations because they just don't KNOW; often they have no real idea how big they will even grow up to be much less anything else, and their only observation of these animals has been in a completely unnatural, stilted and highly stressed environment that can make good dogs look bad and bad dogs 'lock down' and seem fine right up until they blow... Health guarantees? Temperament guarantees? Yeah right. You bought it, (excuse me-*adopted* it) you own it, health and temperament issues and all. If the pup/dog develops serious health or temperament issues, they will direct you to the vet or a good trainer, and offer you good luck. Oh, you can return it, but you will not get a replacement for that several hundred dollar 'adoption' fee, you will get attitude for being a 'bad owner' for returning a dog that didn't work out, often for reasons beyond YOUR control. And, in a few cases, overburdened shelters or rescues may 'gloss over' the bad points to try and get more animals moved through the system. Too many animals coming through the doors means they will not be able to keep them long enough to catch the telltale signs of a problem, assuming they are experienced enough to see it. This is where you get the horror stories about kids savaged and etc. I am not demonizing rescues or shelters here, I have been engaged in rescue for many years, and I have seen some very well run shelters who would never do such a thing, and I'd say they outnumber the bad ones. But, it is undeniable that shelters and rescues are working with a handicap when trying to make any kind of predictions about what you can expect, long term, from adopted dogs.
A breeder will have a record of health testing on the parents usually for several generations, and a pedigree that shows what those dogs were good for. This is sort of important if you are getting a dog for a special purpose, such as herding livestock on your ranch or working as a police or search-and-rescue canine, or a service dog for the handicapped. Pedigrees track more than parentage; they show a lineage of talent behind your puppy, giving you a good idea what you can expect. The breeder who delivered and sat over these puppies for weeks has socialized those puppies and has a pretty good idea, after several weeks, how best to fit those pups to prospective homes; so we don't waste the time of an elderly couple sending them the hyperactive overacheiver; we send that one to the high end performance trainer and put the sweet, quiet one with the retiree. Health and temperament guarantees are offered by most breeders, which gives the prospective owner genuine remedies if things do not work out. Because it is in the best interests of all concerned, the breeder tries very hard to make sure these arrangements are beneficial to all concerned, because first of all they are a lot more involved with their puppies from the beginning so they are more emotionally invested in wanting the pups to be happy, and there is also the issue of (in the best cases) wanting the new owners to be happy with their new pup so they will love it and give it the best of everything, and (lesser case but still valid) they don't want to see it come back through the door in 18 months because the people are unhappy so they are going to do the front work to see that does not happen. This is where those intangibles of time spent socializing and enriching these pups, and sorting and screening homes to make sure they are paired properly, really makes a difference.
Yes, it is also true that just like shelters and rescues, there are also low end breeders who breed more than they can reasonably manage and who will therefore be less likely to 'screen' beyond whether or not the check will clear. But, as in the case of shelters, the good ones far outnumber the bad ones, it is just that the bad ones get all the press. This is pretty much true of most things in life, actually, but in recent years the ARAs, and especially H$U$ have seized on sensationalizing every single 'bad one' totally out of proportion to reality, presenting each as 'typical' of breeders in general. Of course, each such 'puppy mill bust' comes with a camera crew and a pre-packaged rollout of begging for donations to 'help us with this crisis.' All of this is arranged far in advance of the actual bust; does nobody ever realize just what this means? This is a BUSINESS, people. (Remember Katrina? Remember the millions of dollars in donations to 'help Katrina victims' that H$U$ *still* has not accounted for? Uh huh. Business as usual for those folks.) Sad faces of puppies and kitties will make people open their wallets even faster than sad faces of hungry children; sick but true. As far as that goes, more recently this has escalated to hitting breeders that are NOT doing anything wrong; frankly because there are not enough 'bad guys' out there to keep the 'problem' of 'puppy mills' inflated to the level of a 'crisis' they can sell to the public, to keep the money rolling in consistently. (Now, where have we seen that before, even recently as a matter of fact? *coughcough*MFA*cough*) I wonder where they learned such tactics? Wonder no more; the ARAs teach this stuff in seminars. Incidentally, those seminars that teach terrorist tactics to animal activists? Those are paid for by, you guessed it, your donations to organizations like H$U$ and PeTA, who run flashy ads with heart-wrenching photos of abused and neglected puppies and kittens to get you to part with your green. If you ever wondered what they use that money for, or had some vague thought that they supported animal shelters and helped animals in need, wonder no more. Your donations do not go to provide more care or feeding for a single needy animal; instead they are funneled to cushy pension plans and lobbying to make animal breeding illegal, and yes, those seminars where they teach people how to infiltrate local animal control and city councils, or how to disrupt animal training events, or writing petitions to stop hunting and fishing in your state.
The POINT here is, adopting dogs is a noble calling. I do not want people to take away from my comments that rescues and shelters are bad, or that adopting a dog is always a poor choice. I have done rescue and re-homing for the past 20 years; if I did not believe in the process, I would not be engaged in it myself. Many rescues do a very good job, and even from a breeder you can get a pup with issues. It is more a matter of weighing options, and a rescue dog is often a win/win for the dog and the new home. I also do not want to pick on rescue workers here, they have a tough enough time. It is hard work, from people dedicated to taking animals that have not had the best breaks in life, and trying to turn things around for them. And adoption works; there are literally millions of dogs that have been saved from euthanasia who are presently making their owners very happy.
BUT, there are many situations where an adoption should not be the first choice, and it certainly should never be presented as the only choice. Pretending that buying puppies from whatever outlet is inherently wrong and bad, (whether that be a breeder, or pet store, or your neighbor,) is irresponsible and wrong headed. The same arguments that apply to pet store puppies as far as socialization and etc., apply to shelter dogs as well; and as others have stated, most pet shop pups get a lot more handling once they get to that pet store, than the majority of shelter or rescue dogs. And often they arrive at that pet store too young, before they really should have been taken from their dams which is a sign of irresponsibility on the breeder's part on one end, but at the same time if they are just cranking out pups for cash it's probably for the best to get the pups out of the environment sooner anyway. They are not going to benefit from a longer stay if they have been yanked off their dams to make her dry up sooner, and are not being enriched anyway. At least in the pet store they will get plenty of handling and affection. Even in an ideal shelter or foster situation, they are seldom the entire focus of the rescue personnel, while pet shop puppies (and kittens) are the belles of the ball and the undisputed biggest attention getters. I worked for a pet store when I was a kid, it was one of my first jobs as a matter of fact, and I learned a LOT from that facility, not all of it bad. The pups were kept very clean, they were taken out and worked with all day, we watched them carefully to make sure they were not wallered to death and that they got plenty of time to rest. People bitch about 'spur of the moment purchases' but the simple fact is that a lot of people do that anyway, that is not the shop's fault and in the absence of a pet store these same idiots will be buying pups from ads in the newspaper. Which is also not always a bad thing. Like all things in life, making a decision that will impact your life for maybe as much as 20 years needs more thought and preparation than buying a pair of shoes. But at the same time, everyone is on a learning curve, and sometimes those people with pups in the paper are nice folks with decent pets that were gleefully and delightedly raised in their kitchens, given much love and support, and cradled in one child's lap after another as they grew. It is unfair and actually unreasonable to label those puppies categorically 'undesirable' because their owners are not as accomplished or knowledgeable as some other people.
Bottom line is that the concept that puppies should only ever come from a shelter or rescue is ridiculous, and condemning pet stores on generalized criticisms that actually apply equally as well to shelters themselves is kind of an oxymoron. And, implying that all breeders, or even commercial breeders are 'puppy mills' is BS to start off with, it is demonizing people who work very hard without a shred of fairness to the accusation. It is roughly equivalent to attacking all car dealerships as 'disreputable' businesses that ought to all be shut down, because everyone has a story about some used car they bought that blew up once it left the parking lot. It's a load of crap.
Wednesday, August 14, 2013
Assumption Becomes Presumption: and the ASS Here Might Be You!
This started life as a Note on my FB page. The amount of support and the number of shares of this short article have astounded me somewhat, but gratified me even more. This is an issue that is very near and dear to my heart; I feel it is unconscionable that I am an American citizen who pays taxes, drives responsibly, and breaks no laws, and yet I live in constant fear of animal rights activists, and the ways the fanatacism these people preach, threatens my life and that of my pets and livestock. And yet, I am forced to go to great lengths to protect my animals and my family from these people. I have lobbied at our state Capital in defense of the rights of people to have their Constitutional rights protected; to be able to not fear a knock on the door, and the loss of their rights and their legal property because of ignorant or malicious people with an anti-animal breeder agenda. And I have come home to find that these 'animal lovers' have targeted my animals in my absence; apparently they believe that death by poison is far better than living a life in my house and on my couch and bed... This is a terrible situation, and it threatens ALL of us, when you consider that this is not just about pets or so-called 'puppy mills,' but that these people are assaulting ALL animal producers, including our farmers who produce food for this nation. In fact, I am in the crosshairs from both directions, since besides our beloved Beaucerons and English Toy Spaniels, I also raise ornamental poultry and pet rabbits, so I am under the gun both as an evil dog breeder AND a heartless farmer. What follows is a plea for simple common sense, and for logic and reason to trump hysteria and emotional rhetoric. Thank you to all who have sent me kind words about this piece, and a permission to crosspost is included.
This is for all the doggie people that have friended me on FB, and that includes the pet owners and dog lovers, not just the show folks. I want to say a word about assumptions, and I really hope a lot of you are listening.
Recently, we have seen a huge change in the way people respond to one another. I blame the internet, because while it allows us to communicate better than ever before, it has not allowed us to really CONNECT like you do in person. And, many studies have shown that people are far more ready to be rude and outspoken on the 'net than when they are face to face. They are more willing to be hateful, aggressive, and accusatory. And I believe we are beginning to see this trend spilling over into real life.
Nowhere is this more apparent, at least in my world, than in the ways that people berate one another over animal issues. We have seen a huge increase in blaming and shaming, in almost all aspects of pet ownership; everything from docking and ear cropping (oh, teh HORRORZ!) to crating vs kenneling, on up to owners who shave their dogs for summertime. It seems that no pet owner is doing it right, doing it well enough, providing well enough, giving enough room, spending enough money, time or what have you on their animals. But unlike the past, instead of people shaking their heads in disapproval, they seem to feel it is incumbent upon them to accost people they feel are not 'doing it right,' or worse, call the authorities on virtually any pretext. And I did not use the word 'virtually' by accident; some of these people preen about this as if they were doing something virtuous instead of just inexcusably irresponsible and rude. And this is even worse when people act out of ignorance and think they are being noble.
One of the most common accusations is 'neglect.' Anything from buttonholing people at Petsmart because their dog is 'too thin,' to calling the authorities on a rancher for 'starving' a horse, or having animals in supposedly 'deplorable!' conditions. People, let me tell you something: Even if you *think* it's your business... it probably ISN'T. Those 'filthy'' rabbit cages? Are scheduled to be bleached tomorrow, but that is just what rabbit cages look like after three days, and no it is not reasonable to bleach them twice a day. The rabbits are just fine, they are fat and sassy, stop obsessing about them, they EAT their damn feces for God's sake! It's how they digest their food; they are a semi-ruminant like cows, and they run their food through twice to digest it. They save their bunny pellets in their wild burrows and EAT them. So stop worrying about a few in their cage, mmmkay?? It's not *filth* it's a normal part of their DIGESTIVE process...
That "matted" dog? May look unkempt, but he FEELS just fine. No, he isn't unhealthy, or in any discomfort or distress. He isn't even necessarily unloved. You can't see it under his hair, but he's in good body weight, and his teeth and gums are nice and healthy, his eyes are clear, and he is HAPPY. It may not suit YOUR idea of how a dog should be kept, but in honest truth? If it isn't YOUR dog, it isn't YOUR business. Just like it's not really your business if someone is too poor to dress their kids in better than rags. You may think that's awful, but in raw truth, the kids may be more loved and better cared for than many who live in better circumstances with less caring parents. YOU CANNOT ALWAYS TELL BY APPEARANCES, AND ASSUMPTIONS BASED ON APPEARANCES ARE USUALLY WRONG.
That 'starving!' horse out there, that you are so hot to call the authorities on? He's a rescue. He's only been there a few days; and just over the hill? is an entire round bale. Of hay. For him. Then again, maybe that skinny horse is ill and has been under a vet's care. But you can't see that from the road can you? Yet it did not stop you from picking up the phone and calling the cops in a fit of noble glee. Did it make you feel good? Did it feed your need to be important, to be 'proactive' as an animal savior? Did you enjoy the drama, and your part in it? Did you give a moment's thought, at all, to the many ways your actions could hurt, instead of help?
Or, maybe she's old. Old animals often look awful, maybe for months, but they still enjoy a slow ramble around the yard, peaceful contemplation in the sunlight, a quiet ear skritch and a soft word from their best buddy. Your helpful 'intervention' ensures that instead of being allowed to die on her own terms, she will be euthanized maybe weeks sooner when the authorities get involved. And instead of a bittersweet, gentle goodbye, with her grieving best friend gently holding her as she slips away, no; her loving owner will get to remember a sharp knock, a scuffle with authorities, and his best buddy being yanked from his arms. And HER last moments will be terror and confusion as she is ripped away from her life mate, searching fruitlessly for his scent, the sound of his voice; while some professional 'in charge' pushes a cold needle in her leg and the lights go out...Thanks a lot. It also ensures that if any of this guy's neighbors have a sick animal, they are going to err on the side of caution and instead of giving it a chance to get better, they will want to prevent that knock on their door, so they will put it down immediately rather than have some well meaning fool call the law on them.
Because, you see, it isn't as simple as the cops show up, see that the animal has water and food, and say, "Excuse me! As you were, sir!" and go off again. There is usually a hearing. Even if you are not guilty, no one needs the hassle of answering an animal abuse complaint, particularly when most such charges end up in the local news and you are ever after shunned by your neighbors, no matter the outcome. Once you have been accused of animal neglect or abuse, you are guilty in the eyes of the public, forever after. Your name will be spread as far as the internet and righteous indignation can take it, and people will never forget, or let YOU forget, either. Dozens of people will team up on internet blog sites to denounce you, people who have never met you or seen a single one of your animals, but who are SURE you are the Spawn of Satan because the papers said so. And the papers, who were so quick to give copy space on the front page when the charges were brought and the raid was on, will be oddly silent months later when you are cleared of any wrongdoing. If they print anything at all, it will be buried on the back of an inner section, and few people will see it, and fewer will believe it. And of course, by then your animals, at least the ones who are still alive, will have been scattered to the four winds, neutered and placed in new homes by the authorities. Reputations are ruined, reputations that took years to build, and breeding programs that took maybe decades to establish are devastated, all on the basis of juicy hearsay.
Sometimes, the miscarriages of justice are caused by well meaning people wearing official badges, who simply do not know what an old animal looks like, or a dog with cancer, or what have you. And being human too, these officials are already angry because you told them these people were mean and awful, and just like you they love animals, it's why they took that job, and just like you they don't like mean and awful animal abusers either. So, the owners end up arrested by people who show up biased, already primed to see neglect, and willing to see it even if it isn't present, especially if it is not a species or a situation they are familiar with. Those are bad enough, but I could cite you several examples with documented proof that the owners were telling the truth, that their accusers were either misled or malicious, and yet their animals were taken anyway, and often killed either by euthanizing or mishandling on the part of the 'rescuers.'
Or, chillingly often lately, the animal control people tasked with answering the complaint are people with their own agenda, and too often, owners become entangled unwittingly in a humaniac sideshow, as different animal rights operatives such as H$U$ or the A$PCA compete for the right to steal their animals under color of law and 'adopt' (excuse me: SELL) them to new homes. Think I am being alarmist? No. This has already happened to countless animal owners, even top breeders with plenty of show trophies and years of experience. Heaven forbid that they have a dirty rabbit cage, or the authorities show up early in the morning (their favorite time) before the owner has had their morning coffee, and long before they have had the chance to clean the pens for the day. Those 'dirty' pens will be used as evidence of abuse and neglect, not the natural daily business of caring for animals. John Stoessel did an exposee on this very subject on 20/20; they hired a private veterinarian who examined animals taken on the pretext of being 'abused' and 'neglected' and determined that they were not abused whatsoever. Just profitable for the shelters, who had sometimes arranged for buyers BEFORE the raid. Things that make you go, "Hmmm."
I have friends and clients who are afraid to take their service dogs out in public. Dogs that are impeccably trained, well behaved, and essential for their well being: but they are afraid to take them out in public. Why? Because their dog is an adolescent male, and he is going through the 'uglies,' and for an adolescent male dog of many large breeds, that means that he will be thin. Not dangerously thin, not unhealthy in the slightest, but lean and ribby. Or, their dog is a sighthound, like an Ibizan or a Greyhound, and those animals are very lean and ribby, even with hip bones and backbone showing, when they are in good and fit condition. Yet try getting people to believe that. We love our animals, we do, and we tend to like 'em on the roly poly side; chubby and cute, despite what a toll this excess weight takes on them over a lifetime. Most pet people, who are generally accustomed to keeping their animals way too heavy, already think a healthy, active and fit dog is 'too thin' because you can see the last rib (which is normal and desirable!) They are beyond incensed at a dog who actually is showing ribs, and they want everyone within hearing distance to know about it. Doesn't matter that it's a breed where the hip bones are supposed to be visible, like the Afghan or other sighthounds. In many breeds this is normal, but some people refuse to believe this even if you get a book and show them. They will sniff that you are just making excuses for your neglectfulness; that dog is TOO THIN! I can see his RIBS! Never mind that this is a working dog, an active dog, who is in harness, or running up and down the fence all day, or hunting, or handling livestock and dealing with puberty... could you be mistaken? NO! Let's drag that owner out and shame them LOUDLY in public at the market! Everyone should SEE what terrible people they are! And let's not care if maybe the reason they need a service dog is because they are suffering from some form of emotional distress, like PTSD; that makes no difference! They are TERRIBLE, AWFUL PEOPLE and we will call them out for it, by God!
Honestly.
Here is the thing: None of us like to see animals abused and neglected. And all of us want to see real abusers brought to justice. But, far too many people currently are infected with what I call 'saviour mentaility;' they are all wrought up and wanting to 'save the animals!' even when they don't need to be saved; even when they have already been saved. There is a right way, and a wrong way, to go about helping animals that are genuinely in distress. There is no excuse for jumping to conclusions, attacking people, and acting in ways that only make things worse. This behavior is based on the mistaken idea that somehow, our opinions about animal care should have the force of law. But the problem here is, no two people can ever agree on what is 'proper' care. Furthermore, often what is perceived as 'neglect' is less about any genuine difficulty for the animal, and more about unreasonable or excessive expectations from people long on opinion but short on actual husbandry experience. If you are one of those people who just cannot see others doing things you do not approve of, without feeling the need to publicly shame and blame, here is a really easy suggestion: NUNYA. And if you cannot live with that, if you really believe that you are dealing with possible neglect, here is another suggestion: Try asking. Politely. Instead of assuming, and challenging people in a booming, accusatory fashion. Why not save the righteous indignation and the puffed up cheeks for when you are really sure of yourself, eh? Stop knee jerk reacting every time you see a dog without an inch thick pad of fat wobbling around on its butt... ASK. Ask nicely. "He seems to be a bit on the thin side; is there a medical issue?" in a concerned, interested voice, instead of "How DARE you take an animal out in public in that condition?! You should be brought up on charges!"
Can you see the difference? Because in the first case, I will smile and tell you, "Actually, no; he's just a silly male going through the adolescent uglies. He eats everything that isn't nailed down just like a human teenager, and never gains an ounce; but he should be growing out of this phase soon." Which should put your fears to rest without harming a soul. And in the second case, if you are belligerent enough, that dear li'l doggie you are trying to help may take offense that you are accosting its owner and bite you. And from where I stand, you will roundly deserve it.
Edited to add: This Note has received a lot more attention and appreciation than I ever thought it would when I wrote it. I am deeply appreciative of the many kind comments, and I am adding a 'permission to crosspost freely' tag here, for the many who have asked me by email and PM if I would be willing to share it. Feel free to copy and post as you please, just please give me credit for the work. Thank you, and hoping the best for you, your families, and your pets and livestock.
This is for all the doggie people that have friended me on FB, and that includes the pet owners and dog lovers, not just the show folks. I want to say a word about assumptions, and I really hope a lot of you are listening.
Recently, we have seen a huge change in the way people respond to one another. I blame the internet, because while it allows us to communicate better than ever before, it has not allowed us to really CONNECT like you do in person. And, many studies have shown that people are far more ready to be rude and outspoken on the 'net than when they are face to face. They are more willing to be hateful, aggressive, and accusatory. And I believe we are beginning to see this trend spilling over into real life.
Nowhere is this more apparent, at least in my world, than in the ways that people berate one another over animal issues. We have seen a huge increase in blaming and shaming, in almost all aspects of pet ownership; everything from docking and ear cropping (oh, teh HORRORZ!) to crating vs kenneling, on up to owners who shave their dogs for summertime. It seems that no pet owner is doing it right, doing it well enough, providing well enough, giving enough room, spending enough money, time or what have you on their animals. But unlike the past, instead of people shaking their heads in disapproval, they seem to feel it is incumbent upon them to accost people they feel are not 'doing it right,' or worse, call the authorities on virtually any pretext. And I did not use the word 'virtually' by accident; some of these people preen about this as if they were doing something virtuous instead of just inexcusably irresponsible and rude. And this is even worse when people act out of ignorance and think they are being noble.
One of the most common accusations is 'neglect.' Anything from buttonholing people at Petsmart because their dog is 'too thin,' to calling the authorities on a rancher for 'starving' a horse, or having animals in supposedly 'deplorable!' conditions. People, let me tell you something: Even if you *think* it's your business... it probably ISN'T. Those 'filthy'' rabbit cages? Are scheduled to be bleached tomorrow, but that is just what rabbit cages look like after three days, and no it is not reasonable to bleach them twice a day. The rabbits are just fine, they are fat and sassy, stop obsessing about them, they EAT their damn feces for God's sake! It's how they digest their food; they are a semi-ruminant like cows, and they run their food through twice to digest it. They save their bunny pellets in their wild burrows and EAT them. So stop worrying about a few in their cage, mmmkay?? It's not *filth* it's a normal part of their DIGESTIVE process...
That "matted" dog? May look unkempt, but he FEELS just fine. No, he isn't unhealthy, or in any discomfort or distress. He isn't even necessarily unloved. You can't see it under his hair, but he's in good body weight, and his teeth and gums are nice and healthy, his eyes are clear, and he is HAPPY. It may not suit YOUR idea of how a dog should be kept, but in honest truth? If it isn't YOUR dog, it isn't YOUR business. Just like it's not really your business if someone is too poor to dress their kids in better than rags. You may think that's awful, but in raw truth, the kids may be more loved and better cared for than many who live in better circumstances with less caring parents. YOU CANNOT ALWAYS TELL BY APPEARANCES, AND ASSUMPTIONS BASED ON APPEARANCES ARE USUALLY WRONG.
That 'starving!' horse out there, that you are so hot to call the authorities on? He's a rescue. He's only been there a few days; and just over the hill? is an entire round bale. Of hay. For him. Then again, maybe that skinny horse is ill and has been under a vet's care. But you can't see that from the road can you? Yet it did not stop you from picking up the phone and calling the cops in a fit of noble glee. Did it make you feel good? Did it feed your need to be important, to be 'proactive' as an animal savior? Did you enjoy the drama, and your part in it? Did you give a moment's thought, at all, to the many ways your actions could hurt, instead of help?
Or, maybe she's old. Old animals often look awful, maybe for months, but they still enjoy a slow ramble around the yard, peaceful contemplation in the sunlight, a quiet ear skritch and a soft word from their best buddy. Your helpful 'intervention' ensures that instead of being allowed to die on her own terms, she will be euthanized maybe weeks sooner when the authorities get involved. And instead of a bittersweet, gentle goodbye, with her grieving best friend gently holding her as she slips away, no; her loving owner will get to remember a sharp knock, a scuffle with authorities, and his best buddy being yanked from his arms. And HER last moments will be terror and confusion as she is ripped away from her life mate, searching fruitlessly for his scent, the sound of his voice; while some professional 'in charge' pushes a cold needle in her leg and the lights go out...Thanks a lot. It also ensures that if any of this guy's neighbors have a sick animal, they are going to err on the side of caution and instead of giving it a chance to get better, they will want to prevent that knock on their door, so they will put it down immediately rather than have some well meaning fool call the law on them.
Because, you see, it isn't as simple as the cops show up, see that the animal has water and food, and say, "Excuse me! As you were, sir!" and go off again. There is usually a hearing. Even if you are not guilty, no one needs the hassle of answering an animal abuse complaint, particularly when most such charges end up in the local news and you are ever after shunned by your neighbors, no matter the outcome. Once you have been accused of animal neglect or abuse, you are guilty in the eyes of the public, forever after. Your name will be spread as far as the internet and righteous indignation can take it, and people will never forget, or let YOU forget, either. Dozens of people will team up on internet blog sites to denounce you, people who have never met you or seen a single one of your animals, but who are SURE you are the Spawn of Satan because the papers said so. And the papers, who were so quick to give copy space on the front page when the charges were brought and the raid was on, will be oddly silent months later when you are cleared of any wrongdoing. If they print anything at all, it will be buried on the back of an inner section, and few people will see it, and fewer will believe it. And of course, by then your animals, at least the ones who are still alive, will have been scattered to the four winds, neutered and placed in new homes by the authorities. Reputations are ruined, reputations that took years to build, and breeding programs that took maybe decades to establish are devastated, all on the basis of juicy hearsay.
Sometimes, the miscarriages of justice are caused by well meaning people wearing official badges, who simply do not know what an old animal looks like, or a dog with cancer, or what have you. And being human too, these officials are already angry because you told them these people were mean and awful, and just like you they love animals, it's why they took that job, and just like you they don't like mean and awful animal abusers either. So, the owners end up arrested by people who show up biased, already primed to see neglect, and willing to see it even if it isn't present, especially if it is not a species or a situation they are familiar with. Those are bad enough, but I could cite you several examples with documented proof that the owners were telling the truth, that their accusers were either misled or malicious, and yet their animals were taken anyway, and often killed either by euthanizing or mishandling on the part of the 'rescuers.'
Or, chillingly often lately, the animal control people tasked with answering the complaint are people with their own agenda, and too often, owners become entangled unwittingly in a humaniac sideshow, as different animal rights operatives such as H$U$ or the A$PCA compete for the right to steal their animals under color of law and 'adopt' (excuse me: SELL) them to new homes. Think I am being alarmist? No. This has already happened to countless animal owners, even top breeders with plenty of show trophies and years of experience. Heaven forbid that they have a dirty rabbit cage, or the authorities show up early in the morning (their favorite time) before the owner has had their morning coffee, and long before they have had the chance to clean the pens for the day. Those 'dirty' pens will be used as evidence of abuse and neglect, not the natural daily business of caring for animals. John Stoessel did an exposee on this very subject on 20/20; they hired a private veterinarian who examined animals taken on the pretext of being 'abused' and 'neglected' and determined that they were not abused whatsoever. Just profitable for the shelters, who had sometimes arranged for buyers BEFORE the raid. Things that make you go, "Hmmm."
I have friends and clients who are afraid to take their service dogs out in public. Dogs that are impeccably trained, well behaved, and essential for their well being: but they are afraid to take them out in public. Why? Because their dog is an adolescent male, and he is going through the 'uglies,' and for an adolescent male dog of many large breeds, that means that he will be thin. Not dangerously thin, not unhealthy in the slightest, but lean and ribby. Or, their dog is a sighthound, like an Ibizan or a Greyhound, and those animals are very lean and ribby, even with hip bones and backbone showing, when they are in good and fit condition. Yet try getting people to believe that. We love our animals, we do, and we tend to like 'em on the roly poly side; chubby and cute, despite what a toll this excess weight takes on them over a lifetime. Most pet people, who are generally accustomed to keeping their animals way too heavy, already think a healthy, active and fit dog is 'too thin' because you can see the last rib (which is normal and desirable!) They are beyond incensed at a dog who actually is showing ribs, and they want everyone within hearing distance to know about it. Doesn't matter that it's a breed where the hip bones are supposed to be visible, like the Afghan or other sighthounds. In many breeds this is normal, but some people refuse to believe this even if you get a book and show them. They will sniff that you are just making excuses for your neglectfulness; that dog is TOO THIN! I can see his RIBS! Never mind that this is a working dog, an active dog, who is in harness, or running up and down the fence all day, or hunting, or handling livestock and dealing with puberty... could you be mistaken? NO! Let's drag that owner out and shame them LOUDLY in public at the market! Everyone should SEE what terrible people they are! And let's not care if maybe the reason they need a service dog is because they are suffering from some form of emotional distress, like PTSD; that makes no difference! They are TERRIBLE, AWFUL PEOPLE and we will call them out for it, by God!
Honestly.
Here is the thing: None of us like to see animals abused and neglected. And all of us want to see real abusers brought to justice. But, far too many people currently are infected with what I call 'saviour mentaility;' they are all wrought up and wanting to 'save the animals!' even when they don't need to be saved; even when they have already been saved. There is a right way, and a wrong way, to go about helping animals that are genuinely in distress. There is no excuse for jumping to conclusions, attacking people, and acting in ways that only make things worse. This behavior is based on the mistaken idea that somehow, our opinions about animal care should have the force of law. But the problem here is, no two people can ever agree on what is 'proper' care. Furthermore, often what is perceived as 'neglect' is less about any genuine difficulty for the animal, and more about unreasonable or excessive expectations from people long on opinion but short on actual husbandry experience. If you are one of those people who just cannot see others doing things you do not approve of, without feeling the need to publicly shame and blame, here is a really easy suggestion: NUNYA. And if you cannot live with that, if you really believe that you are dealing with possible neglect, here is another suggestion: Try asking. Politely. Instead of assuming, and challenging people in a booming, accusatory fashion. Why not save the righteous indignation and the puffed up cheeks for when you are really sure of yourself, eh? Stop knee jerk reacting every time you see a dog without an inch thick pad of fat wobbling around on its butt... ASK. Ask nicely. "He seems to be a bit on the thin side; is there a medical issue?" in a concerned, interested voice, instead of "How DARE you take an animal out in public in that condition?! You should be brought up on charges!"
Can you see the difference? Because in the first case, I will smile and tell you, "Actually, no; he's just a silly male going through the adolescent uglies. He eats everything that isn't nailed down just like a human teenager, and never gains an ounce; but he should be growing out of this phase soon." Which should put your fears to rest without harming a soul. And in the second case, if you are belligerent enough, that dear li'l doggie you are trying to help may take offense that you are accosting its owner and bite you. And from where I stand, you will roundly deserve it.
Edited to add: This Note has received a lot more attention and appreciation than I ever thought it would when I wrote it. I am deeply appreciative of the many kind comments, and I am adding a 'permission to crosspost freely' tag here, for the many who have asked me by email and PM if I would be willing to share it. Feel free to copy and post as you please, just please give me credit for the work. Thank you, and hoping the best for you, your families, and your pets and livestock.
Tuesday, August 6, 2013
Welcome to the Grotto! About Us:
Hello, and thank you for visiting the new blog. My name is Lenna S. Hanna-O'Neill, and I am a retired farmer from the heartland of Oklahoma. I own Enchanted Oaks farm, where with the help of my family and friends I raise our beautiful Beauceron and English Toy Spaniel dogs. We are also home to a shifting Noah's ark of other animals, including ornamental poultry, Lionhead, Holland Lop and Netherland Dwarf rabbits, and a variety of hoofstock such as goats, sheep, etc. Since my son and I still do some limited rescue, there is never any telling what we might have at any given moment. Since I retired, my son Donson does most of the day to day management, but we work together to constantly improve our farm and our lines.
This blog will center around subjects concerning dog showing and breeding, farming, and raising healthy, quality animals for others to love and enjoy. More recently, I have begun addressing the encroaching mindset of 'animal rights' activists. The wrong headed and fanatic beliefs of these humaniacs are beginning to pose real problems for the people who are trying to put food on America's tables, or provide loving, healthy pets for carefully screened homes. I have been a regular on many dog breeding and showing forums as well as several agricultural boards as D'Sorceress (a nod to the kennel name Sword & Sorcery,) and some time ago, due to my often ascerbic style when dealing with these miscreants, I acquired the nickname 'Wicked Witch of the MidWest'. I have adopted it as my own; I am not tender to the enemies of our dogs or our animals, and I do not suffer fools gladly, I make them suffer instead. On the plus side, there are those with disturbed personalities who find my caustic humor entertaining. It is for them that this blog is shared.
So, be welcome, and know that if you are a normal person with reasonable beliefs about loving and living with animals, you will probably be at least mildly entertained, and possibly even occasionally educated. If, however, you are a Breeding Nazi, who is never satisfied unless you are one-upping someone on the amount and frequency of tests you insist are necessary for prospective breeding couples, and more concerned with critically berating everyone for Not Doing It Well Enough than with simply enjoying the animals whose lives we are entrusted with; or a PeTA sympathizer who believes that all animals should be enjoyed at arms length, through binoculars,. or on television, and never from personal interaction: or if you think H$U$ is just not doing enough to make life miserable for farmers and other 'animal exploiters;' or if you think that 'owning' animals is immoral, or that asking our pets to assist us in our daily lives is somehow demeaning to their dignity, then I'm afraid you will not have much fun here. Oh, hell let me be clear... YOU won't have fun, but I assure you I will.
This blog will center around subjects concerning dog showing and breeding, farming, and raising healthy, quality animals for others to love and enjoy. More recently, I have begun addressing the encroaching mindset of 'animal rights' activists. The wrong headed and fanatic beliefs of these humaniacs are beginning to pose real problems for the people who are trying to put food on America's tables, or provide loving, healthy pets for carefully screened homes. I have been a regular on many dog breeding and showing forums as well as several agricultural boards as D'Sorceress (a nod to the kennel name Sword & Sorcery,) and some time ago, due to my often ascerbic style when dealing with these miscreants, I acquired the nickname 'Wicked Witch of the MidWest'. I have adopted it as my own; I am not tender to the enemies of our dogs or our animals, and I do not suffer fools gladly, I make them suffer instead. On the plus side, there are those with disturbed personalities who find my caustic humor entertaining. It is for them that this blog is shared.
So, be welcome, and know that if you are a normal person with reasonable beliefs about loving and living with animals, you will probably be at least mildly entertained, and possibly even occasionally educated. If, however, you are a Breeding Nazi, who is never satisfied unless you are one-upping someone on the amount and frequency of tests you insist are necessary for prospective breeding couples, and more concerned with critically berating everyone for Not Doing It Well Enough than with simply enjoying the animals whose lives we are entrusted with; or a PeTA sympathizer who believes that all animals should be enjoyed at arms length, through binoculars,. or on television, and never from personal interaction: or if you think H$U$ is just not doing enough to make life miserable for farmers and other 'animal exploiters;' or if you think that 'owning' animals is immoral, or that asking our pets to assist us in our daily lives is somehow demeaning to their dignity, then I'm afraid you will not have much fun here. Oh, hell let me be clear... YOU won't have fun, but I assure you I will.
A Note About Arrangement: The Archive
You may note that this Blogger account was actually set in motion in August of 2013, yet several of the pieces in here predate that. No, it's not an error; they were transferred here from a different blog site, to be kept together with the rest of my dog writings. They will probably be joined by several others over the coming weeks. I am hoping to figure out a way to organize the essays by content, but until then, they are kind of tucked in more or less in order of date of origin. Enjoy!
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